Unless you’ve had your head in the sand for a while you would have heard of the phenomenon known as speed dating. The concept is that lots of single people turn up to a bar or other venue and then each person has a mini-date with all the other people individually in a round robin style event. These mini dates often last around 5 minutes and the daters have to learn as much about each other as possible in this short time. Where this type of dating event falls down is that people are under a lot of pressure to make a good first impression in a very short time and they cannot really learn very much about each other as it is so rushed. A new ‘dating cruise’ company think they can solve these problems.
New York based company, ‘Moving Love’ are in the final stages of planning for their next singles luxury cruises which comes only 4 months after their first cruise went very well. The cruises are strictly for single people and you need to able to prove your occupation. “That is all that we ask of our passengers” states Mike Flemming, MD of Love Works. “They have the whole trip to get to know the ins and outs of the other holiday makers, which is typically 4 week long enough to get know someone pretty well we think.” The last cruise traveled around South America for 4 weeks and 3 days, and took a massive 3000 single people. The cruise was a definite success according to the company, who have said that over 350 couples got together on the cruise and some are already planning to get married. Plans are already in place to run local river cruises and there is currently a German cruise planned for next year on a Rhine river cruises
Flemming has commented that the success of the new dating cruises comes from the fact people are more relaxed on the boat as they treat it as a holiday and they also are not forced to act quickly when meeting people as there is plenty of time for everyone.
Last year, I decided I want to find my soulmate online. I had avoided taking this drastic measure for several years but it seemed like everyone I know, including friends and co-workers, are signing on, creating profiles, and looking for love online. If they can make it happen, why can’t I?
Looking for the Right Notes
Life, just like the notes on a sheet of music, is rhythmic. The people themselves may change but at some stage you want to hear the full orchestra together. I knew that when I could find my soulmate, the missing notes in my life would be found. A soulmate adds to life’s rhythms but in a way that is enduring.
New to the world of internet dating, when I began finding my soulmate online I was hesitant to disclose information about myself. I wasn’t sure of how to draw the attention of people. Neither was I sure of how much to share about myself. I started searching for success stories of other users to find the answers to these problems. The material that came up through the search was very inspiring.
Out there though, I realized that I wasn’t the only skeptical first-timer. Cynderella met her current husband in a chat room. Being from a small town in a rural area, she did not have many dating options. Her friends suggested that like me, she should try internet dating.
IN just a week, Cynderella met MJ. She went through his profile after he first sent her an emoticon showing his interest in her. What she saw intrigued her and she responded. The month to follow was marked with emails and IMs shuttling back and forth between the two of them. Finally, they took it to the next level and met offline.
As they lived in different states, Cynderella caught a flight to go and see MJ . Even while stepping off the plane she grew sure that she had finally found her perfect match. “I had been transformed, from being a nervous Nelly I was now a self-confident woman flying across the country to meet a man. Online dating really empowered me to take control of my life. Luckily I found my soul mate and we are now happily married…and living in the same state,” says Cynderella. Though there were no glass slippers, the music was loud and clear.
Surprises That Make You Happy!
I came across Mark’s story when I was continuing the search for my soulmate. Mark was still in college when he met H2O. He was surfing the web with some friends when they stumbled upon a banner for a dating site. In humour, they decided to take a look a the site.
Later on in the night Mark’s friends made a bet with him. They said they’d wash his athletic gear for a year if Mark could get a date on the online site within a month. Mark agreed to the bet.
He made his profile and started chatting with women, most of whom were highly offended by the bet but Mark continued to be honest for as he says “I wanted to be upfront about the bet so that it doesn’t become an issue later on”.
The end of the month was coming closer and Mark presumed that all was lost. He would be washing the gear for not only himself the rest of the year – he would also be washing his friends’ gear.
With two days to go Mark stumbled upon a profile that caught his attention. He wrote her an email, she responded immediately and before they knew it they were chatting the whole night. H2O lived in a nearby town and Mark set up a date to meet her at a local movie theater. The bet didn’t offend her. “She has a great sense of humor,” says Mark. “Within 6 months of having started dating we knew we never wanted to be without each other. She’s my fiancé now and we will be married in 2010.”
Loving the Music
While trying to find my soulmate I was led to great success stories, but it also showed me the problems you can face if you are not careful. Mad4You met a man on the internet who seemed perfect for her. She says, “I couldn’t believe that we had so much in common.” After chatting just a few times, Mad4You says she was “very attracted”. However an unexpected problem came up. “Just because a person tells you they are divorced from a previous spouse does not mean they are not married now!”
The number of single parents looking for love online was also quite revealing. Many singles say that single parents are often great matches. Ensure the compatibility of your kids, when looking for true love !
Yellowtutu found her ultimate man online. She was a single mother with 3 teenaged children. Digthis, in turn, had 2 sons from his previous marriage. She informed her children about him after having communicated with him for many months.
On the first date Yellowtutu’s eldest daughter fell head over heels for Digthis’s younger son. The attraction was mutual and they met secretly for over a year without letting their parents know. Mad4You and Digthis eventually realized they were not the perfect match and the kids told their story.
“Despite not working out for him and me, we still believe that the relationship was entirely worth it all. My daughter found her perfect match and they’ve been happily married for more than 3 years and also given us the 2 most beautiful grandchildren ever” says Yellowtutu. It hit me then that anything can happen when you go online searching for your soulmate.
…yes life is filled with rhythm. When I find my soulmate, or when you find yours, be sure to listen closely. The music will swell and the notes will sound fuller.
Can I get my wife back? I bet you think of nothing much else? It was exactly the same for me when my partner left. It doesn’t have to be like this though. You can get your wife back if you want it bad enough.
What can I do to help?
You should be taking some time off. A little time for yourself won’t hurt. You must be in control of your emotional side at all times. Use this time to get that control.
You can think about your plan of action while you are apart. Are you going to just sit there and hope your wife comes back? Or are you going to take action yourself and go get your wife back.
Having no contact works in another way too. Your total absence will be noticed. You are not constantly around and your wife notices this, and that’s good.
Stuff you shouldn’t be doing
Do you need reminding what you shouldn’t be doing? Harassing your wife won’t help. Calling, texting, following or god forbid, stalking your ex is a big no no.
Avoid drink and drugs as they will make things worse. Drink is a natural depressant so be warned. Any of these stupid moves can kill your chances of getting back together for good. At worst they could get you into trouble with the law.
You need to make sure you don’t wreck what chances you do have. If you blow it with a stupid move then any plan you have is worthless. One rash move could blow your chances out of the water.
There’s a system out there with your name on it. Seriously! Let’s face it, you or me aren’t the first to be thinking how to “get my ex back”. You certainly won’t be the last!
Quite a few people who’ve split in the past have wrote down their methods to get back together fast. Which is precisely what you can use to get your wife back. You can mirror their success by following their rules. Easy peasy.
Question…will you just sit and wait for your wife to return to you? Good luck with that. Or will you do something about it and get your wife back yourself?
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