How to End Attracting Emotionally Unavailable Men
14 11 2009
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Nanette Geiger, Relationship Advisor , writes… …
“I often tend to attract the one who’s emotionally unavailable. What can I do to change my vibration”? This is a question that was asked by one of my clients. Interestingly, that was the main complaint I recurred from my long string of relationship failures. They were either emotionally inept, lived far away or was travelling a great deal.
When you continue creating unavailable lovers, my question to you is, “Is something in you that has a fear of commitment, or finds it difficult to be truly open in a love relationship”? That may be difficult to accept right now, but that is what I find to be the situation most of the time.
As a relationship life coach, I provide Relationship Life Coaching for Women. I also recommend that you get very clear about what you desire. Get clear by creating a list of the qualities you desire in your ideal mate.
You create the list for yourself so you can attain clarity concerning what it is you truly want. You’ll start to realize where any weaknesses are in yourself as you create the list. You will see where you should go to work on your level of expectation or belief in the likelihood of receiving what you’re desiring.
To bring out the state of feeling happy expectancy, next ask yourself the question “Why do I want this”? It is time to use your imagination. When you answer this question, think of all the wonderful activities you will do together. Think of smiling, holding hands, and introducing him to your girlfriends. Envision what it’ll be like to be with someone who’s romantic and loves to bring you flowers.
You make the list for yourself, and the Universe responds to your clear vibration – the pure intention and unresisted desire!
Many of us have been told as a child to accept whatever you receive, it’s not kosher to ask for favors, why can’t you just be happy with what you have? – kind of like programming. I say you ask for it all and continue creating yourself into the fulfilment of your affirmations.
