How to pick up a girl
1 01 2010It’s known that women are approached a LOT by men, not to say that they are men with any game but that’s besides the point. It’s because we know that there’s competition out there we naturally tend to go for women we think we may atleast stand some chance with. It’s because of this that we decide that we should stay where we are most comfortable and that hot women are “out of our league” or that competition is far too stiff. In our minds we convince ourselves that beautiful women only date very wealthy men who happen to look like Brad Pitt. I’m going to tell you now that you do not need to be James Bond to get with these stunners, although you could learn a lesson or two from him on the ATTITUDE and Alpha Male traits required to be with them.
The truth of the matter is that the most beautiful women, the 10′s, the ones who you admire from a distance… These women are amongst the most lonely women out there. Know why? Because nobody has the balls to go up and speak to her as if she was a human being! Imagine that… There stands a sexy woman who any guy would love to have by his side, and guys actually will avoid talking to her because of an irrational fear of rejection! You’d be more than suprised at the results you would get with hot women if you were to just relax and let your natural charisma flow. It’s unfortunate that the guys who do have the testicular fortitude to talk to these women speak to them as if the slightest word that could be percieved as cocky or offensive is going to wreck their chances. So they speak to them as polite as possible, and compliment them continuously and make it obvious that they are there to serve to them. These hopeful guys validate themselves to the women by spewing anything and everything they have going for them and divulging every last detail about themselves leaving no room for mystery or intrigue, instead they compensate for their own percieved lack of value in comparison to her by placating to her whims, schedule and time; “Call me when YOU’RE avaiable”, “When are YOU free”, “When can I BUY YOU dinner”. Not only is all of this translating to the woman that you are creepy, have low value (and probably no life) but also that you are BORING.
Knowing how to talk to girls with relaxed confidence and not being afraid to share some humour with her like you would your friends and adopting the traits of an alpha male (by actually BEING an alpha male) you will be able to have these women hooked.
Hot women are secretly yearning for a man, an alpha male to look after them and enjoy their time with. If you know how to pick up a girl, you know how to pick up hot beautiful women – no special treatment necessary.
Until next time
Eros
