The Basics of Seducing
25 11 2009Seduce her with seduction techniques. That’s the tip you get from a guy friend after confessing and asking him what you must do to get the object of your affection But how do you seduce her?
Dating experts claim that there are seduction strategies you can apply to sweep your special lady up her feet It sounds so easy when they say it but when it’s you taking the rein, it seems to be such a great feat.
Why is that?
Because you lack the self-esteem to actually do this. You may have friends who can give you the seduction techniques and tips that you need to improve your dating game, but if you do not have the self-esteem nor the confidence to actually go out there and do what have learned, then these will all be to no avail.
That is the first tip I can give you about captivating women. What you should do is look at yourself Tell yourself that you can do it Tell yourself that you can be like the greatest lovers in history and sweep her off her feet. This is what every girl wants and this is exactly what you can give her.
Did you watch the Mel Gibson movie, “What Women Wants”? That’s so cool, right? Hearing every woman’s thoughts. But like what I said – it’s just a movie. But who says you can’t “hear” what women are thinking? You can somehow but not how Mel Gibson does it in the movie.
Another seduction technique. After witnessing how confident and self assured you are, the the girl you like will notice you. This girl will appreciate every conversation you start with her. Just make sure that you do not start with a pick up line. Women detest pick up lines – especially the cheesy ones.
Women also hate creepy lines. Like cheesy pick up lines, avoid these at all cost. You wouldn’t want to be bookmarked as her stalker. So what you do is you just gauge your opener. Make it sweet but not cheesy, candid but not creepy. Then you can match your words with a body language that oozes confidence. Remember – confidence is sexy.
Now that’s already a bunch of seduction techniques. We all want to satisfy women, just as we want to please ourselves. By realizing that we can definitely pick women up, we realize that we can be modern day Casanovas – and this is what we want.
You must have gut-level attraction when you are conversing with a girl that you like You have to “hypnotize” her somehow. Make her feel that she would want to talk to you more and more – and be with you as often as she could. No, you will not hypnotize her literally You can have her hooked by actually listening to what she is saying. Women like men who listen. Oh no, scratch that. They not only like them, they love them.
Try it. Mention something that she mentioned the last time you spoke with each other She would be amazed on your ability to remember. Watch her as her heart stops for a beat or two. She will be impressed that you actually listened to her and remembered her words These are major points, my man. This is something you definitely should do.
Finally, do not orchestrate too much. Girls know whether you had everything orchestrated – from the conversation opener to the content of the conversation to your gestures. They can tell if you’re acting or not and let’s be honest – it is an act if you practiced it too much. You have to go with the flow. It’s like preparing for an oral examination. You know the fundamentals but you don’t know the question that will be thrown at you. When you are face to face with the question, you say what you remember from what you reviewed the night before.
Same can be said on dating. Know the basic seduction techniques and go out there. Never expect but don’t be lax either. Remember everything I taught you and you’ll surely get to kiss the girl.






