Approach a Woman You Want to Meet in Easy Steps

8 11 2009

Approaching a woman to talk is one of the things that scare most men. It’s very simple, but without another person making the introduction it’s darn near impossible…until now.  There is a certain art to approaching women you want to meet and you’ll have to toughen your hide a bit before you do it, but hopefully these tips will help you out.

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•    First thing you must remember is confidence. Just believing that it could work even if she is a breathing goddess.  You must be able to confidently walk up to her and chat her up without using a flimsy excuse like asking for the time. Women can respect confidence and can even smell it so to speak.  Sometimes, having the guts to approach her is enough to have her interested.Women like men who are interested in them, why else do you think they get dressed up and put on makeup?  It certainly isn’t for their sake.

•    The second tip is not to come on too strong.  Pick up lines that have been used so many times are basically ineffective to the point of being laughable, instead come up with a unique line. Maybe ask her a question about something she’s wearing or just start a small conversation.  The point is not to come on right away.  You don’t have to have her in bed that night, you can do a little bit of romancing.  The key here is to make her feel comfortable with you, not to scare her away.

•    Lastly, don’t be saddened if she doesn’t reciprocate the interest.

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It usually happens and you can’t do anything about it. That doesn’t mean that you did anything wrong, but more of that you’re just not her type and that’s fine because there are plenty of women out there that like you, but you probably don’t like them.  For whatever basis, it just doesn’t work. The thing to keep in mind is that when approaching women to realize that there is a 70% chance that they don’t even want to talk with you, then 20% that they’ll talk and probably only 10% that you’ll get their number.  Just play the numbers and most of all don’t give up.

No one likes hearing someone say the big “NO” to them and it’s understandable, but just think of how many women out there probably have no one ask them out ever.  Which is worse?  So remember all of these facts and tips and you should have no trouble approaching women you want to meet in any of your future endeavors.

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Book about approaching women? The Art of Approaching review

10 09 2009

I’ve been hearing a lot of things about The Art of Approaching written by Joseph Matthews.

Naturally, I wanted to immediately review this book that apparently teaches men how to approach women!

It was interesting to see that this ebook is the only one in the world that focuses on the topic of approaching women. For most guys, the biggest sticking point would be the approach, and this is very important for men who want to meet women.

I know how you feel, because it is hard to walk up to an attractive woman and approach her to start a conversation. I know you can imagine how it feels, think about it, your heart rate is jumping, the palms of your hands are becoming sweatier and your adrenaline is racing. This sounds like you’re going off to war I know!

If you wanted to learn the details of opening women in a systematic way, then the Art of Approaching will do just that. The book has several chapters and they include the topics relating to:

  • The Art Of Body Language
  • The Art Of Confidence
  • The Art Of Approaching
  • The Art Of Flirting
  • The Art Of Storytelling
  • The Art Of Being Social

Even though the book does cover other aspects of dating and seduction, the focus is mainly about the initial approach. I honestly did not know the complications that came with approaching women until the author broke down the process into a systematic format.

I enjoyed the process whereby the author would show you how to directly open a woman. He also points out at least 3 more ways to open women that are less known than conventional methods such as using indirect or opening situationally. On top of that the Art of Approaching covers the psychological aspect relating to approach.

It was good to see that the author was not born a natural with women so he also had to learn the hard way like the rest of us. The author was not born a natural, that’s why he als knows how scary it is for guys when they want to approach girls!

If you want to learn more about this book, why don’t you read my article about it: The Art of Approaching

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