You CAN Mend Pain from a Previous Relationship and Create the Relationship of a Lifetime

1 12 2009

Life Coach Relationship Video

Nanette Geiger, Law of Attraction Coach , writes… …

You have ceased a mediocre relationship that doesn’t fit you anymore. It was difficult to end the situation, because it was not terrible, but your emotions wished to be completely fulfilled in love. Currently you find yourself being lonesome and have a difficult time shutting the door fully on that difficult relationship. Does this ring true for you?

You begin to question yourself, wondering if your relationship was truly that bad.

In order to invite anything fresh into our existence, we have to let go of what is taking its place. It isdifficult to have a clean renewal and attract the one who lights up your existence if you’re emotionally holding the area of the past. You do not need to necessarily absolutely abandon the friendship. But if you see that you are keeping some unresolved issues from the previous relationship, then it is time to clear that energy out. Completion is necessary. You can get the Relationship Advice you need today.

Completion is the action of acquiring 100% responsibility for how you feel, expressing everything you feel about the situation (without laying blame on anyone) with the intention of saying all that needs to be said as though you’re emptying a container. When you have expressed it all, that container is clean and clear.

It also assists you to understand what you want from the clearing conversation. That is, you want to be complete, you want to be free from your past so you can create from a new place.

If you have found your mind clinging to pain from the previous relationship, perhaps you think that he really needs to be held accountable for his actions. Best of luck attempting to break free from that. The more your mind is on something you do not desire, the longer you’ll attract it to you.

Let the vibration you are letting in to be siphoned off from your power. It’s a slow leak in your energy field and after a while, it will deplete you, if it has not already. Also, that slow energy leak limits you from letting all your power present in this moment. When you do not have your mind in the moment it makes it more difficult to be a powerful, deliberate creator. Life Coaching and Relationship Advice can help you along the way.

Take all of your power back by releasing and letting go of the previous relationship, of judgements that bog you down, muss up your energy level and inhibit you from accelerating the relationship and love you want and should have.





How To Sky-Rocket Your Self-Image and Attract A Love Relationship

30 11 2009

Free Relationship Video Reveals #1 Secret

Nanette Geiger, Law of Attraction Relationship Specialist , writes… …

A common concern for clients of mine is their assumption that they have to lose 50 pounds and/or be financially independent before they can create long-standing love. This is of course a myth. This is just low self-esteem blocking you from being truly whole.

It’s wonderful to want to look your best, be your perfect self, have high self-esteem and be ok concerning your financial situation. It feels really good to feel secure, confident, and beautiful.

There are a MASSIVE number of industries that prey on peoples’ poor sense of self-image. At some time or another, we’ve all fallen prey to buying that new exercise machine that promises to make it simple for us to tone up, slim down and have a beautiful self. Supplements, special diets or dieting plans, hair products, skin, teeth, libido, all of it! And these things are all aimed at one basic idea – that we are not actually OK the way we already are.

We are so used to this type of thought pattern that we hardly even realize [what is. It’s no surprise that we do this. After all, when we arrive here, on the first day of our life, we’re loved and treated as perfection – mostly. Then almost immediately we are compared to how the previous sibling evolved, at what time they attained this knowledge, sitting, crawling, learning the language, and so on. Our hair, our bodies and how they are the same or different to the other one or that. “Oh, she appears similar to Aunt Mary when she was that age.” You know the pattern.

Begin by examining your recurring thoughts and emotions about your body. Many people do not actually understand that they have persisting energy or emotions from these early experiences. Negative emotion, whether pervading or subtle, doesn’t feel good and many of us just learn to subjugate it, deal with it, or drive it further into the unconscious. These influential emotional experiences usually stay buried. We’ve all heard the term “emotional baggage.” We go through life with old unresolved, paining, intense feelings still held somewhere in us. These emotions transmit to the Universe to reflect back more of the same. You can free yourself by improving your self-esteem.

Begin to change your relationship with yourself by creating a list of what you like about you. What really works about yourself? What can you love concerning your appearance? Think of 10 affirmations every day that you truly love about your body. Do you like your senses? Are you thankful for working fingers? Make a list of the positive aspects about you and watch your energy and vibrational level of attraction start to improve. You CAN improve your self-esteem and attract love.





Find out How To Attract Financial Freedom AND A Perfect Love

25 11 2009

Life Coach Relationship Video

Nanette Geiger, Law of Attraction Coach , writes… …

Pat from Washington DC deeply desires to spend her life with a love life partner but is worried about being financially stable before attracting her ideal relationship.

I really empathize with you and you are not alone. That’s a very understandable concern for men and women. However, if every external factor needed to be perfect before we did anything in life, we would be stuck in quicksand waist-deep for the rest of our lifetime, wouldn’t we? The Law of Attraction just does not work that way. This means life does not have to be that way for you either.

Your financial situation, your body, your home, kids, mom, whatever thing or factor does not have to be perfect before you can attract your ideal mate into your life. You want to know how I know that? Simple: the outside factors were not even close to perfection in my life prior to attracting the love of my life. If I can do it, you can as well. Find a Life Coach today!

Here’s what I’d like you to consider: we all have a lot of judgement about ourselves for our lives being less than perfect. Please consider easing up on yourself. Start looking for what is functioning fully in your life. As I so fervently teach concerning the Law of Attraction, whatever you think about is very attractive and how you actually ‘feel’ about that is magnetized. A Law of Attraction Life Coach can help you break through emotional barriers.

Begin by creating a list of things you like about you concerning as many factors of your life you can think of. This is a super vibration raiser. Writing this down will help you in having something to refer back to when you need a reminder about how well your life really is. When your vibration is high you’re in the attraction mode. When you feel down or vulnerable with your financial status, you are actually creating more of the same energy – insecurity and vulnerability. Lean to free yourself from these patterns of thought with a Law of Attraction Life Coach and attract Wealth and Love today!

Begin empowering yourself by having better self-analysis. Notice when the internal dialogue about being ‘less than’ comes up and simply notice and choose to think a better feeling thought. These are some simple ways to get the Law of Attraction working for you immediately.





Love Advice for Working Single Moms

22 11 2009

Life Coach Relationship Video

Nanette Geiger, Law of Attraction Relationship Specialist , writes… …

Susan from North Carolina contacted me because she’s afraid that she’ll never get another husband because she is convinced nobody wants to step into an already established family. If this sounds like you or a person you know, you may be convinced of that, but it’s just not so. I know of women who have toddlers, teenagers, and everything in between and they’ve still acquired a man that adores them and their children. He’s somewhere. If you have the want, you have the capability to create this amazing relationship into your life experience.

In my Magnetic Attraction program I speak concerning the importance of making your list. This is a listing of attributes that you desire in your ideal lover. In case you are feeling insecure concerning attracting a mate who will totally love and accept your children, this this is a perfect item you should write on your list. “I desire someone who loves me and loves my children and they love him too”. Let’s say that is the creation or desire. Now it’s your job to sync with your affirmation.

As a Law of Attraction Life Coach and relationship expert, you learn to clarify your desire by getting the low expectation, belief or contradictory vibrations out of your emotional state.

Ideas like “nobody desires an already established family” is an outdated doctrine that was taught from childhood, adhering to mass consciousness and doesn’t need to be part of your affirmation. It’s not even true.

It’s important to know that you’ve a program running in the background. Your subconscious doesn’t permit you to have your desires fulfilled because of the previous beliefs that were predominant for you as you were a child.

It is similar to your computer. If you’ve an outdated version of a word processing program running and someone emails you a document in a new format, you can’t open it on your old program because the ver‭sions just do not match. You can fix this problem with free Love Advice for Women.

Clarifying your desire fully and consciously and moving into the place of understanding you can have it, that you should have this relationship, and feeling as if it is already on the course to you. Get the Love Advice for Single Working Moms you deserve today. This mindset puts you in the area of being deliberate and intentional about your manifestations and wants. Now you are in the attracting mode.





Helpful Hints to Liberating Your Mind from the Fear of Betrayal

20 11 2009

Free Relationship Video Reveals #1 Secret

Nanette Geiger, Law of Attraction Specialist , writes… …

“I am afraid of being hurt again, but I truly wish to find my soul mate. How can I feel more confident about love”?

You have two ways to pursue here. 1) You can mope until you’ve had enough time in between the pain in your previous relationship or 2) begin healing and letting go of the past. Considering you want to reach your soul mate, then I’d begin the task of letting go. It’s faster and easier than you imagine. Receiving help from a certified relationship life coach can make your path smoother.

Being guided to do release work is a path of releasing and freeing yourself from your previous relationship. Consider releasing your emotions and letting go as forgiveness. You are making energetic space for the amazing, new, healthy, and whole relationship to reside in.

I know some of you are saying “Yeah but, I don’t think he really needs to be forgiven for his actions. He wronged me and that is just that”! The will it takes to hold a grudge presides in your space. You’re allowing your energy to be siphoned off from you. It’s a slow leak in your energy field and over time, it will deplete you, if it has not already. Also, that slow energy leak prevents you from letting all of your mind focused in the present moment. When you do not have your consciousness in the moment, do you imagine you are going to be the perfect creator that you truly are? It becomes that much more impairing. Take your full potential back by releasing and letting go of your past relationship, of judgements that burden you, clutter up your energy field and prevent you from moving in the right direction to creating the life you were born to live. You can speed up the process immensely by receiving help from a life coach.

I find that the idea of forgiving can be a convoluted one. Firstly, I am not speaking of the kind of forgiveness where we’re excusing someone else’s poor behavior. It’s essential to have clear boundaries set for you. And to understand how you feel concerning who you desire in your life and who you do not, how you want to spend your life and with whom. It is important to understand what will work for you and what does not. Get Relationship Life Coaching and Advice for Women today!

Until you clear the area of hurt, you’ll either create more pain or have a difficult time being completely fulfilled with love. So first, clear out the old pain, then release and let in new love.





How to End Attracting Emotionally Unavailable Men

14 11 2009

Free Relationship Video Reveals #1 Secret

Nanette Geiger, Relationship Advisor , writes… …

“I often tend to attract the one who’s emotionally unavailable. What can I do to change my vibration”? This is a question that was asked by one of my clients. Interestingly, that was the main complaint I recurred from my long string of relationship failures. They were either emotionally inept, lived far away or was travelling a great deal.

When you continue creating unavailable lovers, my question to you is, “Is something in you that has a fear of commitment, or finds it difficult to be truly open in a love relationship”? That may be difficult to accept right now, but that is what I find to be the situation most of the time.

As a relationship life coach, I provide Relationship Life Coaching for Women. I also recommend that you get very clear about what you desire. Get clear by creating a list of the qualities you desire in your ideal mate.

You create the list for yourself so you can attain clarity concerning what it is you truly want. You’ll start to realize where any weaknesses are in yourself as you create the list. You will see where you should go to work on your level of expectation or belief in the likelihood of receiving what you’re desiring.

To bring out the state of feeling happy expectancy, next ask yourself the question “Why do I want this”? It is time to use your imagination. When you answer this question, think of all the wonderful activities you will do together. Think of smiling, holding hands, and introducing him to your girlfriends. Envision what it’ll be like to be with someone who’s romantic and loves to bring you flowers.

You make the list for yourself, and the Universe responds to your clear vibration – the pure intention and unresisted desire!

Many of us have been told as a child to accept whatever you receive, it’s not kosher to ask for favors, why can’t you just be happy with what you have? – kind of like programming. I say you ask for it all and continue creating yourself into the fulfilment of your affirmations.





I have Tried Positive Affirmations, Why Isn’t it Creating What I Want

13 11 2009

Free Relationship Video Reveals #1 Secret

Nanette Geiger, Law of Attraction Relationship Advisor , writes… …

If you’ve tried repeating positive realizations, playing with vision boards and other utilities to help get you in the attraction mode and they haven’t worked, there could be several issues. Affirmations and Vision Boards are utilities you can facilitate when you desire assistance in digging into that feeling place of what it’s like to have your want manifested. If you’re practicing using these tools and not truly seeing the feeling place, then you’re just doing a repetitive action and will not likely get a lot of positive output. If you’re realizing that feeling place and persistently not receiving results, then chances are you have got more resisting energy than you realize. I was at one point in the same situation. I did not understand what was in the way. I had to get life coaching that manifested all of the difference.

As for affirmations, remember the Universe matches your vibration, your aligning intention, instead of the words you think. So you can have thoughts and jabber all day long, and if you are sending out envy when you see someone else who has a thriving love relationship, you’re transmitting a feeling of lacking. And not a thing has to actually change around you in order for your beloved to show up. You don’t have to move to a larger abode, or a nicer neighborhood, or a city that’s populated with singles or couples whichever way you view it. The only thing you have to accomplish is begin where you are and end the resisting energy.

Imagine a scale. I mean, the the scales of justice. Picture it evenly balanced with no weights on either end. Now picture that each occurrence you put a happy thought over on the right side you put a weight on the attraction side and each occurrence you have a doubting thought, you place a weight on the resisting end. Where do you imagine you actually weigh in? The funny thing is, I thought I was a positive person. Oh boy, was I mistaken. Not only did I have so much baggage about previous relationships, but I did not even realize it. On the way it is helpful to have a Law of Attraction Life Coach who is skilled and objective who can understand to what is happening in your life and help you uncover the limiting beliefs.

The truth is, if you just practiced unparalleled appreciative energy and stayed feeling good, you would be releasing a lot of resistance continuously and any of your desires would manifest very darn fast. Use Spiritual Life Coaching for New Relationship Sessions to your advantage. So continue appreciating all that’s working in your life!





How a Relationship Coach can assist you use the Law of Attraction to strengthen your relationship

13 11 2009

Life Coach Relationship Video

Nanette Geiger, Relationship Advisor , writes… …

Have you ever wondered if you’re with the ‘right’ one? How do you truly know for sure? This is a question I get asked when a person’s relationship has several problems. The problem could either be you’re getting many stop and go signs, or it takes lots of hard work to have the relationshiop go well. Don’t get me wrong, a relationship does take work, but they don’t need to be hard labor. Communication is fairly simple. You should feel free to say what’s on your mind. When relationships get hairy, and they will, you have the courage and presence of mind to smoothe it over later on by taking responsibility for your actions or words.

A good relationship should not feel like difficult labor. Love and equal respect are at the core of the relationship. That being said, you should not underestimate the power of the Ego to mess things up. Not knowing where you’re at in your personal level of maturity, it’s hard to say what is going on in your life. In any relationship, you have the ability to remake what you have. That is right. You can re-create your current relationship. Anyone committed to being in a fulfilling, loving relationship will need to remake it using relationship advice to keep it fresh and alive.

I am going to help you purge all of the mixed signals you’ve been taught about your emotions. You are ready to attain the clearness of what your mind is trying to tell you; and best of all – you’ll never anymore be in the dark concerning whether you are CREATING a perfect relationship or RESISTING one. Bottom line is, you want to know how to get the Law of Attraction working for you.

The real question is are YOU letting the Law of Attraction to work for what you REALLY want? In other words, the Law of Attraction is continuously sending back to you your primary vibration. What you should know is, what is my main vibration on the matter of attracting love? I answer these kinds of questions and lots more pertaining to new relationship advice for men in my Law of Attraction Life Coaching and training programs.





Self-Confidence and Finding Love

7 11 2009

Life Coach Relationship Video

Nanette Geiger, Law of Attraction Relationship Best Selling Author , writes… …

A Life Coach for people with self-confidence or self-esteem problems is very helpful in addressing this following question. Women tend to suffer mostly from self-esteem, abandonment and lack of feelings of being worthy problems. Relationship Advice for Women is one way to solve this problem in relationship coaching. Anita asks: “Are some of us just meant to be lonely forever”? Anita, considering the fact that you responded to the survey concerning relationships and the Law of Attraction, I’m going to assume you have been thinking about creating love for yourself. There are many who decide to stay out of serious relationships. And that need not be the case for a person who’s given up after they have continuously been unsuccessful. Nothing at all is wrong with wanting to be without an intimate relationship. Life can be fulfilled and wonderful with any decision you make.

As long as you know you are choosing that instead of throwing up your hands out of frustration that you have not found the love of a lifetime. You can have everything in a relationship and in your life.

If you could view yourself from the point of view of Source or your Inner Being, or Higher Self, you’d see a wonderful, magnificent, illuminated, connected entity. Then life begins to happen around us. Our well-meaning parents, teachers, and elders, in an attempt to teach us, tell us from the beginning what to look out for, warn us, caution us, and attempt to shelter us, effectively having us adhere to their fears and projections of insecurity rather than tuning in to our personal energy. OK, I will grant you as brand new creatures we do require protection. Fine. But shortly after they learn to do things by themselves, self-actualization needs to be part of the training for the small ones.

Well-meaning parents want to do the correct thing so they guide, caution, admonish, and scare young ones to make them behave. This only creates an underlying insecurity and inability. The sensation of not-enoughness gets embedded as a child.

Neurological research now tells us that until the age of 7, we’re so open and receptive, we have no filtering abilities at all. We go around in a kind of hypnagogic trance and become impressed with whatever happens to enter our life experience. It is no wonder we have deeply ingrained, although misplaced, thoughts about an imperfect nature. By the time we’re 6 years old, we have heard the word “NO” about 60,000 times. Watch out for that, that could hurt you, be careful, do not drop that. The subliminal message is you’re unworthy, you can’t believe in yourself, you don’t know what you’re doing, and so on.

Our parents and elders were indeed well-meaning. They simply wanted our well-being. But you can see how simply we’ve been trained away from our innate greatness and brilliance.

I recommend that you go easy on yourself and give yourself a break. Firstly, it’s not your fault. It’s not even the fault of your elders. They were programmed the same way as well. You can stop this perpetration of lower sense of self-worth on yourself and everyone you know. You deserve to have anything you desires.

Do your very best to lavish yourself appreciation and self-acceptance. Adhere to yourself as you would a beloved child. Forgive her for her shortcomings. The reality is, the Universe appreciates, Spirit adores you, and your Inner Being loves you. Why? Because you ARE perfect. And that IS the truth!





Fear of Intimacy and Loving Again

2 11 2009

Life Coach Relationship Video

Nanette Geiger, Law of Attraction Relationship Expert , writes… …

Life Coaching for people with confidence or self-esteem issues is very valuable in answering this following question. Women seem to suffer mostly from self-esteem, abandonment and worthiness issues. Coaching Life for Women is one way to solve this problem in life coaching. Anita asks: “Are some of us just destined to be lonely forever”? Anita, since you responded to the survey concerning relationships and the Law of Attraction, I’m going to assume you’ve thinking about creating love for you. There are many who choose to stay out of serious relationships. And that is not necessarily the situation for a person who’s given up after they have continuously failed in the past. Nothing at all is wrong with preferring to be without an intimate relationship. Life can be fulfilling and fantastic with any choice you make.

As long as you realize you are choosing that rather than throwing up your hands out of frustration that you have not met the love of your dreams. You can acquire everything in a relationship and in your life.

If you could see yourself from the point of view of Source or your Inner Being, or Higher Self, you would see a wonderful, fantastic, brilliant, connected person. Then life starts to happen around us. Our well-meaning parents, teachers, and elders, in an attempt to teach us, tell us from day one what we need to watch out for, stop us, caution us, and attempt to protect us, effectively having us listen to their fears and projections of insecurity rather than tuning in to our personal guidance systems. OK, I will give you as simple new creatures we do need protection. Fine. But shortly after they understand to function by themselves, self-actualization needs to be part of the training for the little children.

Well-meaning parents want to do the right thing so they guide, caution, admonish, and instil fear in young ones to make them behave. This only creates a level of insecurity and inability. The sensation of not-enoughness gets embedded at an early age.

Brain research now tells us that until we’re 7, we are so open and receptive, we have no filtering ability at all. We walk around in a sort of hypnagogic trance and become amazed with whatever comes into our life experience. It is no question we have deeply ingrained, although misguided, beliefs about an imperfect nature. By the time we are 6 years old, we have heard the word “NO” about 60,000 times. Look out for that, that could hurt you, be careful, do not do that. The subliminal message says you are inept, you cannot believe in yourself, you do not understand what you’re doing, and so on.

Our parents and elders were indeed well-meaning. They only intended for our well-being. But you can see how simply we have been whisked away from our innate greatness and brilliance.

I suggest that you go easy with yourself and let yourself have a chance. First off, it is not your fault. It is not even the fault of your parents. They were taught that way as well. You can end the perpetration of low sense of self-worth on yourself and everyone you know. You deserve to have everything you wants.

Do your very best to express yourself love and self-acceptance. Treat yourself as you would a beloved child. Forgive her for her shortcomings. The reality is, the Universe adores, Spirit admires you, and your Inner Being adores you. Why? Because you ARE perfect. And that IS the reality!