I always attract the wrong type. What Law of Attraction Dating Advice Can I Use to Find a Guy Who Will Commit?

27 10 2009

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Nanette Geiger, Law of Attraction Relationship Expert , writes… …

You’ve arrived at the perfect place for Law of Attraction dating and relationship advice. This is what I like to call a high-quality query. Arline from Brazil says she continues creating men who will not commit. Arline wants to know how she can change these relationship qualms. You can see that Arline holds herself responsible for this pattern. I find huge amounts of power in taking responsibility for what is happening in your life. That is a huge leap in the meaningful creation process. I understand exactly how it is, because that was my story previous to when I made my powerful relationship breakthrough. I continued creating guys who were afraid of committing. What I did not understand was that I was sending out unclear signals. It is amazing how we can say we desire one thing and yet transmit a signal that attracts just the exact opposite.

You want to date someone who is ready to commit to the relationship. You don’t want to worry and be curious of if he is content if you’re the only one who is truly committed. The energy of insecurity in the relationship sends more messages of uncertainty. Using Law of Attraction Dating will just send back to you even more of the exact wavelength. You should desire to use this energy by creating what it feels like to feel secure in your love. What does it feel like to realize you are ready to be loved? Create with the vibration of how wonderful that is and you will be sending the Universe another intention entirely.

We’re all incredibly powerful creators and we desire to know how to get more of what we want in life and relationships. I coach some hugely powerful techniques in changing your aspect of attraction, called Shifting Focus. You’ll learn about this and much more in my FREE Video The #1 Secret to Finding and Keeping the Love of Your Dreams. Get powerful Law of Attraction Relationship and Dating Advice.





Helpful Hints to Freeing Your Mind from Fear of Betrayal

25 10 2009

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Nanette Geiger, Relationship Best Selling Author , writes… …

“I don’t wish to be hurt continuously, but I truly want to find my soul mate. How can I increase confidence and find my soul mate”?

You have two ways to go here. 1) You can mope until you have had adequate time in between the pain in your previous relationship or 2) start healing and letting go of the past. Since you desire to reach your soul mate, then I’d begin the task of letting go. It’s faster and simpler than you imagine. Acquiring assistance from a certified relationship life coach can smooth the road.

Getting guidance to do release work is a way of releasing and freeing yourself from the past. Think of emotional release and letting go as forgiveness. You are making new area for the fresh, new, healthy, and whole relationship to show up into.

I realize some of you are saying “Yeah but, I don’t think he really needs to be forgiven for his behavior. He was wrong and that is just that”! The energy it takes to hold a grudge takes up your space. You’re allowing your energy to be siphoned off from you. It’s a slow leak in your energy level and after a while, it will deplete you, if it has not already. Also, that little energy leak prevents you from having all of your mind focused in the present moment. When you do not have your consciousness in the moment, do you imagine you are going to be the perfect creator that you truly are? It becomes that much more impairing. Take your full potential back by releasing and letting go of your past relationship, of judgements that burden you, muss up your energy level and prevent you from moving forward to having the life you were meant to live. You can speed up the process immensely by receiving help from a life coach.

I find that the topic of forgiving can be a complicated one. Firstly, I am not speaking about the kind of forgiving where we were excusing someone else’s poor behavior. It’s essential to have clear boundaries set for you. And to know how you feel about who you want in your life and who you don’t, how you want to spend your time and with whom. It’s essential to realize what works for you and what doesn’t. Get Relationship Life Coaching and Advice for Women today!

Until you clear the area of pain, you will either attract more hurt or have a hard time being completely fulfilled with love. So first, expunge the old hurt, then release and let in new love.





Do You Keep Attracting Emotionally Inept Lovers?

20 10 2009

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Nanette Geiger, Law of Attraction Relationship Specialist , writes… …

“I always tend to create the one who is emotionally unavailable. What should I do to change my vibration”? This is a question that was asked by one of my clients. Coincidentally, that was the main negative vibration I recurred from my long string of relationship failures. They were either emotionally inept, lived far away or traveled a great deal.

When you continue attracting unavailable relationships, my question to you is, “Is there an aspect of your life that is afraid to commit, or finds it difficult to be truly open in a love relationship”? That may be hard to accept right now, but that is what I have found to be the case most of the time.

As a relationship life coach, I provide Relationship Life Coaching for Women. I also recommend that you get really clear about what you want. Get clear by making a list of the qualities you want in your ideal match.

You create the list for yourself so you can attain clarity about what it is you really want. You’ll start to see where any inconsistencies are in your vibration as you create the list. You will see where you need to go to strengthen your level of expectation or belief in the likelihood of creating what you are desiring.

To bring out the state of feeling happy expectation, continue by asking yourself the question “Why do I desire this”? It is time to use your imagination. When you answer this question, think of all the wonderful activities you will do with your attracted mate. Think of grinning, holding hands, and introducing him to your girlfriends. Envision what it’ll be like to be with someone who’s romantic and loves to bring you flowers.

You make the list for yourself, and the Universe responds to your clear vibration – the pure intention and unresisted desire!

Many of us have been trained from childhood to accept what you get, it’s not polite to ask for anything, why can you not just be happy with what you have? – kind of like brainwashing. I say you ask for it all and keep feeling yourself into the alignment of your desires.