Approach a Woman You Want to Meet in Easy Steps

8 11 2009

Approaching a woman to talk is one of the things that scare most men. It’s very simple, but without another person making the introduction it’s darn near impossible…until now.  There is a certain art to approaching women you want to meet and you’ll have to toughen your hide a bit before you do it, but hopefully these tips will help you out.

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•    First thing you must remember is confidence. Just believing that it could work even if she is a breathing goddess.  You must be able to confidently walk up to her and chat her up without using a flimsy excuse like asking for the time. Women can respect confidence and can even smell it so to speak.  Sometimes, having the guts to approach her is enough to have her interested.Women like men who are interested in them, why else do you think they get dressed up and put on makeup?  It certainly isn’t for their sake.

•    The second tip is not to come on too strong.  Pick up lines that have been used so many times are basically ineffective to the point of being laughable, instead come up with a unique line. Maybe ask her a question about something she’s wearing or just start a small conversation.  The point is not to come on right away.  You don’t have to have her in bed that night, you can do a little bit of romancing.  The key here is to make her feel comfortable with you, not to scare her away.

•    Lastly, don’t be saddened if she doesn’t reciprocate the interest.

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It usually happens and you can’t do anything about it. That doesn’t mean that you did anything wrong, but more of that you’re just not her type and that’s fine because there are plenty of women out there that like you, but you probably don’t like them.  For whatever basis, it just doesn’t work. The thing to keep in mind is that when approaching women to realize that there is a 70% chance that they don’t even want to talk with you, then 20% that they’ll talk and probably only 10% that you’ll get their number.  Just play the numbers and most of all don’t give up.

No one likes hearing someone say the big “NO” to them and it’s understandable, but just think of how many women out there probably have no one ask them out ever.  Which is worse?  So remember all of these facts and tips and you should have no trouble approaching women you want to meet in any of your future endeavors.

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Eight Practical Tactics for Talking to Girls

14 09 2009

Are you ready to really expand your dating selections by learning to approach more girls and initiate dates with them? You may be finding out that initiating conversations with women is the one way to give yourself the experience which you truly need to get what you desire in your dating life. So what are the best ways to initiate conversations with women and truly make them interested so that you can get more dates? Well, you may be discovering that you are low on options when it comes to talking to women, but don’t sweat it because you are about to discover the eight most effective tips for doing so.

First, you need to quite being concerned about what women think about you and concentrate on what you want instead. It is a waste of energy and a confidence crusher to ponder everything a girl says and does in an attempt to find out if she is interested. So what? Decide what you want and go get it. Once you do, you will find that quite a few women are attracted to this type of confidence and they will respond to you much better.

The second thing is to talk to everyone, including women you would never date and even men whom you don’t know. If you wait to get your guts up only when you meet a girl you are really attracted to, you can be assured that the ’this is my one chance’ is going to reduce you to a truemonosyllabic caveman. Then again, if you initiate conversations with everyone you meet you’ll keep your social skills sharp and you are sure to be ready when your ideal date comes along.

Third, focus on asking her questions and getting her to speak to you about topics which she likes to talk about. You see, people are more impressed if you are interested in what they have to say than if you are trying to be interesting to them. In addition, getting her to talk about what she likes instead of talking about herself will encourage her to be at ease. After all, if you don’t know her it’s better not to get too personal until you are both ready.

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Fourth, tell a story and make it interesting and even humorous. Like most people, women love stories and they LOVE to get a good laugh and if you have a story ready you can be for sure that she is going to be interested in it. Just make sure that you have broken the ice a bit first and that the story you tell her has something to do with what you are already discussing. You can have a few stories prepared beforehand and make a transition such as: “Hey, that reminds me of…” Then tell the story with enthusiasm and see what effect it has on her.

Fifth, get close to her and demonstrate to her that you are at ease with being close to her. This means that you initiate physical contact as soon as possible, like a light brush on the hand as you are speaking about something. This might seem a bit uncomfortable and you may want to practice it with a person you already know first. However, touch is a powerful indicator of interest and a great way to get people’s attention.

Sixth, laugh at her jokes and be enthusiastic about what she is talking about. This is best done by body language rather than words and will be interpreted as more sincere than if you merely said it. What you must learn about women is that they are more feeling oriented than we are and will respond to you showing them a good degree of excitement. This will also encourage them to talk more and will help you both to be at ease.

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Seventh, be a the bad boy and let her worry about what she thinks of it. This is not to way that you are inconsiderate, it means that you demonstrate your strength as the alpha male. Girls are much quicker to forgive a man’s ‘imperfections’ if he demonstrates to her that he is at ease with them. A lot of guys make the mistake of being ‘nice’ and trying to please a girl. It is much better to show her that you are a self-confident man who can stick up for her when the times comes.

Eighth, if you are interested then go right for the date as opposed to the number. Think about it, you just met her her and you know that you are interested. Why waste your time with the number when you can just request the date? Believe me, no matter what she is going to understand that you are attracted to her so you might as well let her see that you are confident enough to go after what you want. Remember, assertiveness and certainty is a thing which women find attractive. Once you have a date set, take her number so that you can call her in case something changes.
If you dedicate yourself to practicing these things one by one until you become a master you will have a lot more options when it comes to going out with women. Then you can date the girls who you really want to instead of having to sit around and accept what comes to you. Have fun.

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Is Double Your Dating by David DeAngelo Any Good?

8 09 2009

For the guys out there who are interested in the ebook Double Your Dating authored by David DeAngelo, I have provided a quick review of the contents of the book so you can decide if it is worth your time and money!

David DeAngelo’s book covers a lot of topics, but the ones I found most interesting were:

  • being yourself
  • differences between the sexes
  • dispelling myths and misconceptions

Should you just being yourself?

Being yourself is not enough and should not be the focus, instead the author teaches that men should be the best self he can be. I know of a lot of men out there who try to be themselves and fail at getting women, that’s why it’s so vitally critical that they learn how to become attractive to girls first. In order to be successful, you need to stop being yourself for the time being so you learn how to become successful with women, then mould this into your own personality eventually!

What makes the gender roles between the sexes different?

In the Double Your Dating book, the reader is told that men are totally confused by society and that men and women differ in terms of gender roles. In our society, a lot of guys do not know what to do, because they are all confused having been brainwashed by the media. They somehow fall into the misconception that they need to be nice guys to get girls. That’s where the problems begin. Women are attracted to guys who act like guys. But since a lot of guys are confused now they act like women. That’s why a lot of men are not successful with women, because they act like one themselves!

Misconceptions dispelled

Society has given the impression to men that in order to get women they need to be either, tall, handsome, rich or powerful. Clearly is not the case at all. The reason for this is because having these qualities in your personality shows women that men with these elements have a high social standing. To have a high social status, you don’t need to look like you have all the material items that money could buy. The author shows you how to convey these traits into your own personality so you can get girls without being rich or famous!

My conclusion

This was just a quick review of David DeAngelo’s book, Double Your Dating. I enjoyed it thoroughly and I have provided a full and comprehensive review of it here: Double Your Dating David

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