Self-Confidence and Finding Love

7 11 2009

Life Coach Relationship Video

Nanette Geiger, Law of Attraction Relationship Best Selling Author , writes… …

A Life Coach for people with self-confidence or self-esteem problems is very helpful in addressing this following question. Women tend to suffer mostly from self-esteem, abandonment and lack of feelings of being worthy problems. Relationship Advice for Women is one way to solve this problem in relationship coaching. Anita asks: “Are some of us just meant to be lonely forever”? Anita, considering the fact that you responded to the survey concerning relationships and the Law of Attraction, I’m going to assume you have been thinking about creating love for yourself. There are many who decide to stay out of serious relationships. And that need not be the case for a person who’s given up after they have continuously been unsuccessful. Nothing at all is wrong with wanting to be without an intimate relationship. Life can be fulfilled and wonderful with any decision you make.

As long as you know you are choosing that instead of throwing up your hands out of frustration that you have not found the love of a lifetime. You can have everything in a relationship and in your life.

If you could view yourself from the point of view of Source or your Inner Being, or Higher Self, you’d see a wonderful, magnificent, illuminated, connected entity. Then life begins to happen around us. Our well-meaning parents, teachers, and elders, in an attempt to teach us, tell us from the beginning what to look out for, warn us, caution us, and attempt to shelter us, effectively having us adhere to their fears and projections of insecurity rather than tuning in to our personal energy. OK, I will grant you as brand new creatures we do require protection. Fine. But shortly after they learn to do things by themselves, self-actualization needs to be part of the training for the small ones.

Well-meaning parents want to do the correct thing so they guide, caution, admonish, and scare young ones to make them behave. This only creates an underlying insecurity and inability. The sensation of not-enoughness gets embedded as a child.

Neurological research now tells us that until the age of 7, we’re so open and receptive, we have no filtering abilities at all. We go around in a kind of hypnagogic trance and become impressed with whatever happens to enter our life experience. It is no wonder we have deeply ingrained, although misplaced, thoughts about an imperfect nature. By the time we’re 6 years old, we have heard the word “NO” about 60,000 times. Watch out for that, that could hurt you, be careful, do not drop that. The subliminal message is you’re unworthy, you can’t believe in yourself, you don’t know what you’re doing, and so on.

Our parents and elders were indeed well-meaning. They simply wanted our well-being. But you can see how simply we’ve been trained away from our innate greatness and brilliance.

I recommend that you go easy on yourself and give yourself a break. Firstly, it’s not your fault. It’s not even the fault of your elders. They were programmed the same way as well. You can stop this perpetration of lower sense of self-worth on yourself and everyone you know. You deserve to have anything you desires.

Do your very best to lavish yourself appreciation and self-acceptance. Adhere to yourself as you would a beloved child. Forgive her for her shortcomings. The reality is, the Universe appreciates, Spirit adores you, and your Inner Being loves you. Why? Because you ARE perfect. And that IS the truth!





Fear of Intimacy and Loving Again

2 11 2009

Life Coach Relationship Video

Nanette Geiger, Law of Attraction Relationship Expert , writes… …

Life Coaching for people with confidence or self-esteem issues is very valuable in answering this following question. Women seem to suffer mostly from self-esteem, abandonment and worthiness issues. Coaching Life for Women is one way to solve this problem in life coaching. Anita asks: “Are some of us just destined to be lonely forever”? Anita, since you responded to the survey concerning relationships and the Law of Attraction, I’m going to assume you’ve thinking about creating love for you. There are many who choose to stay out of serious relationships. And that is not necessarily the situation for a person who’s given up after they have continuously failed in the past. Nothing at all is wrong with preferring to be without an intimate relationship. Life can be fulfilling and fantastic with any choice you make.

As long as you realize you are choosing that rather than throwing up your hands out of frustration that you have not met the love of your dreams. You can acquire everything in a relationship and in your life.

If you could see yourself from the point of view of Source or your Inner Being, or Higher Self, you would see a wonderful, fantastic, brilliant, connected person. Then life starts to happen around us. Our well-meaning parents, teachers, and elders, in an attempt to teach us, tell us from day one what we need to watch out for, stop us, caution us, and attempt to protect us, effectively having us listen to their fears and projections of insecurity rather than tuning in to our personal guidance systems. OK, I will give you as simple new creatures we do need protection. Fine. But shortly after they understand to function by themselves, self-actualization needs to be part of the training for the little children.

Well-meaning parents want to do the right thing so they guide, caution, admonish, and instil fear in young ones to make them behave. This only creates a level of insecurity and inability. The sensation of not-enoughness gets embedded at an early age.

Brain research now tells us that until we’re 7, we are so open and receptive, we have no filtering ability at all. We walk around in a sort of hypnagogic trance and become amazed with whatever comes into our life experience. It is no question we have deeply ingrained, although misguided, beliefs about an imperfect nature. By the time we are 6 years old, we have heard the word “NO” about 60,000 times. Look out for that, that could hurt you, be careful, do not do that. The subliminal message says you are inept, you cannot believe in yourself, you do not understand what you’re doing, and so on.

Our parents and elders were indeed well-meaning. They only intended for our well-being. But you can see how simply we have been whisked away from our innate greatness and brilliance.

I suggest that you go easy with yourself and let yourself have a chance. First off, it is not your fault. It is not even the fault of your parents. They were taught that way as well. You can end the perpetration of low sense of self-worth on yourself and everyone you know. You deserve to have everything you wants.

Do your very best to express yourself love and self-acceptance. Treat yourself as you would a beloved child. Forgive her for her shortcomings. The reality is, the Universe adores, Spirit admires you, and your Inner Being adores you. Why? Because you ARE perfect. And that IS the reality!





Helpful Hints to Freeing Your Mind from Fear of Betrayal

25 10 2009

Life Coach Relationship Video

Nanette Geiger, Relationship Best Selling Author , writes… …

“I don’t wish to be hurt continuously, but I truly want to find my soul mate. How can I increase confidence and find my soul mate”?

You have two ways to go here. 1) You can mope until you have had adequate time in between the pain in your previous relationship or 2) start healing and letting go of the past. Since you desire to reach your soul mate, then I’d begin the task of letting go. It’s faster and simpler than you imagine. Acquiring assistance from a certified relationship life coach can smooth the road.

Getting guidance to do release work is a way of releasing and freeing yourself from the past. Think of emotional release and letting go as forgiveness. You are making new area for the fresh, new, healthy, and whole relationship to show up into.

I realize some of you are saying “Yeah but, I don’t think he really needs to be forgiven for his behavior. He was wrong and that is just that”! The energy it takes to hold a grudge takes up your space. You’re allowing your energy to be siphoned off from you. It’s a slow leak in your energy level and after a while, it will deplete you, if it has not already. Also, that little energy leak prevents you from having all of your mind focused in the present moment. When you do not have your consciousness in the moment, do you imagine you are going to be the perfect creator that you truly are? It becomes that much more impairing. Take your full potential back by releasing and letting go of your past relationship, of judgements that burden you, muss up your energy level and prevent you from moving forward to having the life you were meant to live. You can speed up the process immensely by receiving help from a life coach.

I find that the topic of forgiving can be a complicated one. Firstly, I am not speaking about the kind of forgiving where we were excusing someone else’s poor behavior. It’s essential to have clear boundaries set for you. And to know how you feel about who you want in your life and who you don’t, how you want to spend your time and with whom. It’s essential to realize what works for you and what doesn’t. Get Relationship Life Coaching and Advice for Women today!

Until you clear the area of pain, you will either attract more hurt or have a hard time being completely fulfilled with love. So first, expunge the old hurt, then release and let in new love.





Do You Keep Attracting Emotionally Inept Lovers?

20 10 2009

Free Relationship Video Reveals #1 Secret

Nanette Geiger, Law of Attraction Relationship Specialist , writes… …

“I always tend to create the one who is emotionally unavailable. What should I do to change my vibration”? This is a question that was asked by one of my clients. Coincidentally, that was the main negative vibration I recurred from my long string of relationship failures. They were either emotionally inept, lived far away or traveled a great deal.

When you continue attracting unavailable relationships, my question to you is, “Is there an aspect of your life that is afraid to commit, or finds it difficult to be truly open in a love relationship”? That may be hard to accept right now, but that is what I have found to be the case most of the time.

As a relationship life coach, I provide Relationship Life Coaching for Women. I also recommend that you get really clear about what you want. Get clear by making a list of the qualities you want in your ideal match.

You create the list for yourself so you can attain clarity about what it is you really want. You’ll start to see where any inconsistencies are in your vibration as you create the list. You will see where you need to go to strengthen your level of expectation or belief in the likelihood of creating what you are desiring.

To bring out the state of feeling happy expectation, continue by asking yourself the question “Why do I desire this”? It is time to use your imagination. When you answer this question, think of all the wonderful activities you will do with your attracted mate. Think of grinning, holding hands, and introducing him to your girlfriends. Envision what it’ll be like to be with someone who’s romantic and loves to bring you flowers.

You make the list for yourself, and the Universe responds to your clear vibration – the pure intention and unresisted desire!

Many of us have been trained from childhood to accept what you get, it’s not polite to ask for anything, why can you not just be happy with what you have? – kind of like brainwashing. I say you ask for it all and keep feeling yourself into the alignment of your desires.





Christian Online Dating Service Tips

27 09 2009

Does Christianity mean more to you than only a spititual classification? Is Christianity the way of life for you? Have you always wanted to meet a fellow Christian to fall in love with? If you answered yes to all three questions, a Christian online dating service may be a part of your calling.

Search online for the Best Christian online dating service. Your quest for your right partner begins with first finding the right dating service to join. Resolve what is most important to you, read the reviews, and make an knowledgeable decision about which site you would like to sign up with. Cost, number of members, theology … will all play a role in your decision.

The most comforting aspect of joining an online Christian dating site is the knowledge that there exists another universal reason the community has gathered in this one forum. All members share the same religious values and beliefs. And all members are looking for single Christians who share those same values and beliefs. You are at an advantage in your quest for the best person with which to share your life.

Faith Defines Who You Are

If your Christian belief is a defining part of your life, and you intend to share your life with someone else of like values, a Christian dating website may be one of the better decisions in your life. If you attend church services weekly, and you have fun with the the companionship of other Christians, finding a fellow Christian to spend the rest of your life with is most important to you.

A Christian online dating service allows you to move at your own pace towards your next potential relationship. Be as it may, you will still enjoy the excitement of learning the likes and dislikes, the common ground, and personalities of participants on the Web site. It is up to you to chronicle the human characteristics and traits that engage you the most. The Christian dating services will then match you with people suited to you.

Living a Christian, living a Christian way of life, and sharing that lifestyle to make your world and the world at large better are very worthy targets. You deserve the best that life has to offer … and joining a Christian online dating service will truly help find the best.





I want to wipe the slate clean with my former spouse, but how can I let it go? Is marriage relationship coaching what I need?

11 09 2009

Free Video Reveals #1 Love Secret

Helen from Ohio asked me about letting herself forgive her Ex so she could move on with her life. Helen really wants to attract a relationship that will not only last a long time, but one that will also grow in intimacy. Many appreciate that question. They can relate to the hurt they’re holding on to from a past failed marriage. Law of attraction coaching for your marriage, whether it’s past or present can help. A few love coaching sessions specific to your relationship issues can be greatly enlightening.

First, you need to congratulate yourself for actually DESIRING to forgive your ex-spouse. That’s huge. If you will set your desire to release a small piece every day, within a very small amount of time you’ll see your energy lift and dissapear. It’s a necessity to forgive even for those who don’t think there’s anything left to release. Forgiveness is an ongoing process and one that releases YOU the most. Another helpful practice is to choose some thoughts that you love about your previous relationship. It doesn’t have to be related to the marriage. Perhaps you enjoyed the way he knew how to fix everything. Or you liked what a close group of budd‌ies he has. Maybe you appreciated his smile. It can be whatever you want. The point is to start to search for qualities that you enjoyed. You do this for no other reason than to shift your energy about him. You release yourself.

When you forgive you generate space. Space to receive more of what’s desired. And for all of us, what’s wanted is to receive more love. I teach all about releasing, clearing out and making space both physically and energetically in my FREE Video The #1 Secret to Finding and Keeping the Love of Your Dreams.