Helpful Hints to Freeing Your Mind from Fear of Betrayal
25 10 2009
Nanette Geiger, Relationship Best Selling Author , writes… …
“I don’t wish to be hurt continuously, but I truly want to find my soul mate. How can I increase confidence and find my soul mate”?
You have two ways to go here. 1) You can mope until you have had adequate time in between the pain in your previous relationship or 2) start healing and letting go of the past. Since you desire to reach your soul mate, then I’d begin the task of letting go. It’s faster and simpler than you imagine. Acquiring assistance from a certified relationship life coach can smooth the road.
Getting guidance to do release work is a way of releasing and freeing yourself from the past. Think of emotional release and letting go as forgiveness. You are making new area for the fresh, new, healthy, and whole relationship to show up into.
I realize some of you are saying “Yeah but, I don’t think he really needs to be forgiven for his behavior. He was wrong and that is just that”! The energy it takes to hold a grudge takes up your space. You’re allowing your energy to be siphoned off from you. It’s a slow leak in your energy level and after a while, it will deplete you, if it has not already. Also, that little energy leak prevents you from having all of your mind focused in the present moment. When you do not have your consciousness in the moment, do you imagine you are going to be the perfect creator that you truly are? It becomes that much more impairing. Take your full potential back by releasing and letting go of your past relationship, of judgements that burden you, muss up your energy level and prevent you from moving forward to having the life you were meant to live. You can speed up the process immensely by receiving help from a life coach.
I find that the topic of forgiving can be a complicated one. Firstly, I am not speaking about the kind of forgiving where we were excusing someone else’s poor behavior. It’s essential to have clear boundaries set for you. And to know how you feel about who you want in your life and who you don’t, how you want to spend your time and with whom. It’s essential to realize what works for you and what doesn’t. Get Relationship Life Coaching and Advice for Women today!
Until you clear the area of pain, you will either attract more hurt or have a hard time being completely fulfilled with love. So first, expunge the old hurt, then release and let in new love.
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